Committed sex gets a bad rap. But when you think about the comfort and security of memorizing each other’s bodies, and kicking the pressure to be perfect to the curb, committed sex actually rules.
No need to date around in order to find someone who is worthy of having sex with you, and then teach them what you like. You already have that. You chose that special someone. Lucky you.
We talked with the experts to dig into the question, “Why is committed sex actually the best sex of your life?” Here’s what they had to say.
Practice makes perfect
Dr. Terri Orbuch says committed sex is great because “your partner knows your likes and dislikes already. And just like other things—practice can make perfect (and you and your spouse have been practicing quite a bit!) You and your partner have a history together.”
Studies show that women in long-term relationships have more satisfying sexual experiences than women who only have casual hookups. So yes, it’s your commitment to one another that’s helping you orgasm.
